Red Wine and a French Maid’s Uniform.

Later, a middle-aged, balding man with a goatee came through the self-checkout.  He was wearing… and I kid you not… a French maid’s uniform.

I Have Always Been Free

I may not have known it, but I have always been free, both when I was a believer and now that I'm not. God never has controlled my thoughts and decisions.  The church culture tried to control me, but its only power is what I allowed it to have.   I’m free. I own my … Continue reading I Have Always Been Free

Conflict with Daddy

He often said... that I was much weaker than him.  I wasn’t strong enough to work as hard as he did. I couldn’t stand up to pressure like he could. And I believed it.

The Old (Crazy) Songs

Believe it or not, this was one of those “feel good” songs, where people stood up, swayed, and clapped their hands, smiling at each other, marveling at how they could worship and have fun at the same time. 

Bullies and Victims: When Will Smith Slapped Chris Rock

I can’t deny that it touched off some old trauma in me, which explains why my heart pounded, my fists clenched, and my eyes welled up every time I thought about it.